The first time the three of us had dinner together, I watched him refill Yvonne’s drink three times, prepare a full plate of beef for her, and passionately talk with her about their research projects.The food on my own plate had already gone cold, but he did not notice.On the way home that night, I could not hold it in anymore and asked, “Didn’t you take care of her a little too much tonight?”He froze for a moment, then smiled.“Yara, I’m only being nice to her because of you.“She’s your best friend. If I don’t take care of her, who will? I can’t make you look bad, can I?”It was all for my sake.Those words became his all-purpose excuse.Later, every time I spoke up, every time I tried to tell him, “I’m uncomfortable,” “You’re too close to her,” or “You remember her but forget me,” he used the same reason to shut me down.“I’m only doing this because of you.“She’s your best friend. I’m treating her well for your sake.“Do you really want me to be cold toward your frien
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