Lying’s often a survival tactic, so unraveling it needs patience. My cousin was a pathological liar—fake illnesses, exaggerated achievements—until his wife gave an ultimatum. He got into CBT, and what surprised me was how boredom triggered his lies. Without drama, he felt invisible. Now he channels that into writing fiction. But here’s the kicker: even after years, his family still double-checks his stories. That stigma lingers. Movies like 'Liar Liar' make it seem like a switch flips, but real change? It’s quieter, and way less satisfying to watch.
I've seen this topic pop up in so many relationship forums, and honestly, it's messy. Some people swear liars can't change, but I think it's more complicated. I had a friend who lied constantly—little white lies at first, then bigger ones. It took losing two serious relationships for them to realize the damage. Therapy helped, but it wasn't instant. They had to rebuild trust slowly, like repainting a wall after stripping layers of old paint.
What stuck with me is how self-awareness plays a role. If someone genuinely hates their own lying habit, there's hope. But if they just miss the comfort of deception? That’s a red flag. Shows like 'You' glamorize manipulators, but real life isn’t scripted—you don’t get a dramatic montage of change. It’s daily work, and most folks won’t stick around to watch the progress.
Depends on why they lie. If it’s to avoid conflict, maybe. If it’s for control? Hard pass. I knew a guy who fabricated entire personas online. When confronted, he claimed it was 'performance art.' Spoiler: it wasn’t. Some people enjoy the game too much to quit. Ever notice how crime podcasts glorify charismatic liars? Real-life ones just leave a trail of confused exes.
Change is possible, but it’s like quitting an addiction—relapses happen. I dated someone who lied about stupid stuff, like pretending to like my favorite band just to impress me. Later, they admitted it was a habit from growing up in a household where honesty meant punishment. They started journaling to catch themselves before spinning tales. It’s not perfect, but the effort counts. Still, I’d never blame someone for walking away; trust isn’t a charity. Ever read 'The Gift of Fear'? It nails how intuition spots patterns before logic does.
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When nerdy, bookish Elizabeth “Lizzie” Foster sets her eyes on Reese Blackwood at a wedding, she makes a wildly uncharacteristic decision.
He’s going to be her first.
Reese is charming, sexy, reckless, and far too attractive for his own good—the notorious son of a billionaire who’s never had to chase anyone in his life. But after one unforgettable moment, Lizzie thanks him politely… and tells him she hopes they never see each other again.
For the first time, Reese is the one left wanting more.
Fate, however, has other plans.
Desperate to escape her controlling mother and finally claim her independence, Lizzie attempts a daring escape—only to be cornered at the airport before she can board her flight. With security closing in and her future slipping away, she does the only thing that comes to mind.
She grabs Reese Blackwood after seeing him in the crowd, kisses him senseless, and announces to her mother and the world:
“Meet my boyfriend. We’re getting married… and I’m pregnant.”
Stunned—but spotting the perfect opportunity to defy his ruthless father and an arranged marriage with an unbearable woman he never wanted—Reese plays along.
Now bound by a scandalous lie, a fake relationship, and a very public fake “pregnancy,” Lizzie and Reese are forced into a dangerous game of pretence. He’s hiding secrets that could destroy them both. She’s fighting for freedom she’s never had. And neither of them expected the biggest complication of all—
Falling for each other might be the one lie they can’t survive.
What could possibly go right?
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When they crossed paths again, Stanley asked, "Have you come to reconcile?" Iris retorted, "Being so delusional is an illness; seek help." Every time she got mad, she always went back to him once she calmed down, but not this time. It wasn't until Iris emerged as a successful lawyer standing opposite him in court that Stanley realized she had changed; she no longer belonged to him.
In a moment of desperation, he pleaded, "Iris, I still love you. Please come back to me." Iris, now strong and resolute, replied, "The reason I improved myself is thanks to you, not for you. Mr. Stein, please step aside; don't stand in my way."
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She learned her lesson and refused to trust other people again but her bodyguard started showing interest in her which she tried to ignore because of her fears.
Love is sweeter the second time around—they say, but the confession of the liar in her life made her despise the word love.
Lies Before Vows is a gripping billionaire romance about duty, deception, and the unexpected power of love. Damon Caldwell, heir to a vast empire, must marry by year’s end or lose everything. Cold and logical, Damon fabricates a relationship with his grounded, no-nonsense secretary, Sienna Blake, just to escape his family’s matchmaking pressure. Sienna, burdened by family debt, reluctantly agrees—only to find herself thrust into the spotlight as the “secret Cinderella.”
As the charade deepens through galas, vacations, and public appearances, real emotions begin to surface. Sienna glimpses Damon’s hidden depth and vulnerability, while Damon falls for her quiet strength and resilience. But their growing bond is tested by a vindictive ex-fiancée, media scandals, and a betrayal from within Damon’s company that costs Sienna her job.
When faced with choosing love or legacy, Damon shocks the world by walking away from his empire to win back the woman he truly loves. Together, they rebuild from scratch, creating a company—and a life—based on truth, respect, and love. In the end, it’s not power or wealth that defines Damon’s success, but the woman by his side and the life they chose—together, on their own terms.
I've been caught in a relationship with a divorced man for eight years.
We've broken up and reconciled too many times to count. In the end, I tallied ninety-four breakups and five divorces between us.
One more would make it an even hundred, but I'm too exhausted to continue this cycle.
The first breakup happened when I was giving him my virginity. Halfway through, his ex-wife called asking him to pick up some bread, and he simply left.
The fifth breakup occurred when he abandoned me, newly pregnant, on the highway to comfort his ex-wife who was having complications with her own pregnancy.
I ended up in a car accident and miscarried. He arrived at the hospital with his clothes disheveled.
Despite all the pain he caused me, I could never bring myself to truly leave him.
Our most recent divorce happened for an equally absurd reason. His ex-wife and their child were participating in a family reality TV show that required them to appear as a complete family unit.
To protect his ex-wife's public image, he divorced me yet again.
When filming wrapped, he called to discuss remarrying.
This time I refused, because I'm going to marry someone else.
If you start with a lie, you live within the lie and die embracing the lie.
She who is clueless about the world yet has a strong personality, enough to not get intimidated by others. Is now held captive within the realms of someone dear.
Is it for the best or for the worst? Will happiness finally find it's way or will the past repeat itself like a curse to her tragic love story.
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I've always been fascinated by how understanding deception can actually bring people closer. Books like 'The Art of Thinking Clearly' by Rolf Dobelli or 'Lying' by Sam Harris don’t just teach you to spot lies; they help you grasp why people lie in the first place. When I read these, I realized that most deception stems from fear or insecurity, not malice. This shifted how I approach conflicts—instead of accusing someone of lying, I try to understand their perspective. It’s made my relationships more open because I’m less quick to judge and more willing to listen. Even small things, like recognizing white lies as attempts to avoid hurt, have made conversations smoother. These books don’t turn you into a lie detector; they teach empathy, which is the real foundation of trust.
Marriage is such a complex dance, isn't it? I’ve noticed that some wives might resort to lying not out of malice, but because they’re navigating layers of unspoken expectations. Maybe it’s small things—like pretending to like his cooking to avoid hurting his feelings or hiding a shopping splurge to sidestep a pointless argument. Over time, these little omissions pile up.
Sometimes, it’s about self-preservation. If honesty has led to blowups or silent treatments in the past, lying becomes a way to keep peace. Or worse, if a woman feels unheard, she might twist the truth just to feel some control. It’s less about deception and more about surviving the emotional gaps in a relationship. Sad, but fascinating how dynamics shape behavior.
You know, I've had a friend who struggled with compulsive lying, and watching their journey made me realize how complex this issue is. Pathological lying isn't just about telling fibs – it's often rooted in deep-seated insecurities or even neurological factors. My friend spent years in therapy unraveling the 'why' behind their lies, and what surprised me was how their stories initially got worse before improving. The therapist explained it like peeling an onion: each layer revealed another trigger.
What gives me hope is seeing how they gradually replaced lies with brutal honesty exercises, like admitting 'I don't know' in conversations. It wasn't quick – we're talking three years of weekly sessions – but the change was real. They still slip up during stressful periods, but now catches themselves and corrects immediately. The key seemed to be addressing the shame cycle; lying led to shame which led to more lying. Breaking that required unbelievable vulnerability.
Marriage is built on trust, so when lies become a habit, it's like termites eating away at the foundation. My cousin's marriage collapsed because her husband kept lying about small things—where he spent money, who he was texting. At first, she brushed it off, thinking it was harmless, but those little lies snowballed into bigger secrets. Eventually, she couldn’t even believe him when he said he loved her.
Lying doesn’t just break trust; it rewires how you see someone. Every word they say becomes suspect. I’ve seen couples try to work through it with therapy, but unless the liar genuinely wants to change, it’s like trying to patch a sinking boat with tape. The resentment builds, and love can’t thrive in that kind of environment. It’s heartbreaking, but sometimes walking away is the only way to stop the cycle.