É difícil quando alguém que a gente gosta age com desdém, né? Já passei por isso algumas vezes, e o que aprendi é que a primeira reação sempre é a mais importante. Respirar fundo e não levar pro pessoal ajuda a evitar conflitos desnecessários. Às vezes, a pessoa nem percebe que tá sendo fria ou indiferente, então vale a pena tentar uma conversa tranquila depois. Se for algo intencional, aí é outra história — mostrar que você percebeu, mas sem revidar na mesma moeda, pode ser mais eficaz. No fim, o que importa é não deixar que o desdém dos outros defina como você se sente sobre si mesmo.
Lembro de uma vez que um amigo começou a agir assim do nada, e eu fiquei remoendo aquilo por dias. Depois descobri que ele tava passando por um problema pessoal e nem tinha noção do impacto no trato comigo. A lição? Nem sempre é sobre você. Claro, se virar um padrão, talvez seja hora de repensar se vale a pena manter essa pessoa tão perto. Auto-respeito vem primeiro.
Cara, situação chata, mas acontece. O segredo é não deixar transparecer que isso te afetou — pelo menos não na hora. Já vi gente que, quando percebe que o desdém não teve o efeito esperado (tipo, você ficar magoado ou reagir mal), simplesmente para. Se for alguém próximo, uma abordagem direta pode funcionar: 'Opa, tá tudo bem? Notei que você tá meio distante'. Mas se for um colega ou conhecido, às vezes ignorar é a melhor resposta. Foca no que você controla: sua própria postura e quem realmente merece sua energia.
E cuidado pra não confundir desdém com um dia ruim, tá? Todo mundo tem momentos de irritação ou cansaço. Agora, se a pessoa faz disso um háculo, aí é red flag. Já cortei laços com quem só sabia me tratar com indiferença, e foi a melhor decisão. Vida que segue.
Meu conselho? Observa antes de reagir. Pode ser um mal-entendido ou um momento pontual. Se persistir, pergunte com calma se algo aconteceu. Comunicação clara evita muitos dramas. E se mesmo assim continuar, talvez seja um sinal pra você se afastar — ninguém merece ficar se desgastando com quem não te valoriza.
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When they touch me
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“I, Riccardo Saviano, future Alpha of the Grey Shadow Moon Pack, reject you, Artemisia Guerrieri, Daughter of Alpha Franco of the Blood Moon Pack, as my mate and future Luna.”
One single sentence.
One stupid single sentence was all it took to disintegrate my life.
And the day of my birthday, on which this sentence was audaciously uttered to me, I lost the love of my life, my future mate, and my wolf, all at once.
As I’m still assembling the pieces of my shattered heart years later, there they come.
Like lightning out of a crystal blue sky.
My Mates.
But wait…
If I am mated to triplets, how come I’m about to be mated to 5 gorgeous men?
*** TW: explicit and foul language; spicy content; explicit sex scenes ***
Book 1 : When They Touch Me - Completed
Book 2 : Their Burning Touch on my Skin (Sequel) - Ongoing
Julian Ziegler betrays his and Willow Harper's four-year marriage. He pursues his true love like mad, wanting to make up for the regrets he experienced in his youth.
Willow loves him deeply and tries her best to win him back. However, he wraps an arm around his true love and mocks her. "You're the furthest thing from a woman I've ever seen, Willow! I can't even get it up when I look at your icy face!"
Willow's heart dies at his words. She no longer clings to him and leaves, not wanting to embarrass herself further.
…
Julian doesn't recognize Willow when they meet again.
She sheds her strong, domineering façade, revealing a softer, more affectionate side. Countless big shots pursue her—even the most powerful man in the city smiles only for her.
Julian loses his mind! He loiters outside her door every night, giving her checks and expensive jewelry. If possible, he would dig out his heart for her.
When others are curious about their relationship, Willow merely smiles indifferently. "Mr. Ziegler is just a passing chapter in the book of my life."
He has been sleeping with her.
I know. I’m his mate.
For now.
I rejected Orion last week, but instead of getting my freedom, all I managed to do was pissing off the arrogant Alpha heir.
He didn’t accept my rejection.
He left our mate bond half severed and slept with her, knowing his betrayal is setting my soul on fire.
Just to teach me a lesson.
“Ready to beg, little wolf?” My dear mate, the man who once swore me his soul, asks me in our mindlink when he rides her harshly, her moaning piercing my ears.
He is asking which I would choose. Cave in? Or death.
What I didn’t see coming, was him losing it upon the news of my death. He shouted with his eyes mad red: “I forbid you to leave me!!!...please, come back...”
*completed*
Running away from her uncle, who kept her locked up in a room for almost 2 years after her parents died. He just wanted all the wealth of her parents. He tortures her to hand over the property to him. She has no choice but to run. She reached the dark forest where humans were strictly restricted to even stand near it. But entering the forest she did not know that her fate is tied with the king of the forest. Her uncle who is searching for her everywhere and the mateless alpha standing in front of her, to tear her apart. What will happen to her now??Alpha Vance" please at least be with her during her heat; she is a human Alpha, she can’t handle the heat. Usually human don’t have heat, but she is an Alpha’s mate, and an Alpha’s mate has to go through very worse heat than an omega." Astrid begged, but I didn't answer." look Vance___" I cut her off.." no, you look here Astrid. I don't fucking care if she lives or dies. I want us to be together."" How can you be this selfish?" she asked, and that made me go out of my mind." shut the fuck up, Astrid," I shouted and she flinched but didn't utter a word."She is mate or not I love you, Astrid , let her die I don't care
I should step back.
But I don’t.
His hand slides to my waist, firm, deliberate. Not asking. Claiming. My stomach tightens, heat curling low, and I feel every inch of him before I even see him.
He’s behind me, close enough that I can feel his breath at my neck. My pulse stutters as his fingers trace slow, unhurried circles up my back, and I know I should pull away… but I can’t.
His lips brush my neck. Not a kiss yet, just the promise of it. My head tilts back before I can stop myself, back arching like my body is betraying me.
Then he speaks. Low, calm, in control
“Don’t make a sound.”
A shiver runs through me. Not from fear. Not exactly. From… him.
He’s in control. I can’t fight it. I don’t want to.
And somewhere deep inside, I realize the terrifying truth:
I’m letting him have me.
As master grabs me by the neck, he pulls me closer and his hand continues to roam around my body. With an angry look hovering over his face, he whispers. “You belong to me, Imogen, No one under the moon is allowed to touch you the way I do”. At this point i didn’t know what to say but my heart is beating fast. When I needed my mate to accept me, all master did was to reject me and now he wants me back after I have made someone else fall in love with me? With a smirk playing across the edge of my lips, i leaned into his embrace and also whispered, “You made me suffer for you, master. Why don’t I have my own bit of cake by seeing you go through what I went through because of you?” I know I am still in love with master because he is my mate, he is my bondage and more than anything, I wanted that bondage to consume me.
Relationships can be such a maze, can't they? Sometimes, the way someone treats us feels contradictory—like they push us away but still leave little hints that suggest otherwise. I've been there, analyzing every text, every glance, trying to decode mixed signals. Maybe they're distant because they're scared of their own feelings, or perhaps they're just bad at expressing themselves. But here's the thing: actions usually speak louder than words. If they're consistently disrespectful or indifferent, it might be time to prioritize your own peace. Nostalgia can trick us into seeing hope where there isn't any.
That said, human emotions are messy. I've seen friends cling to relationships where the other person alternated between hot and cold—only to realize later it was more about power dynamics than genuine affection. Pay attention to how they treat you during vulnerable moments. Do they show up when it counts? Or is their 'care' just crumbs to keep you hooked? Trust your gut; it knows when someone's worth the emotional labor.