The Henna Wars' by Adiba Jaigirdar is this vibrant, heartwarming, and sometimes painfully real coming-of-age story about Nishat, a Bangladeshi-Irish teen who clashes with her conservative parents after coming out as lesbian. The real spark happens when her childhood friend Flávia—who’s Brazilian and now her rival in a school henna business competition—reenters her life. It’s messy, adorable, and full of cultural clashes, both at home and in the competition. Nishat’s journey isn’t just about
First Love; it’s about claiming her
identity in a world that keeps trying to box her in.
The book dives deep into cultural appropriation, too—Flávia’s henna venture initially feels like stealing Nishat’s heritage, and that tension adds so much depth. Plus, the Dublin setting is refreshing! It’s rare to see queer stories centered outside the U.S., and Jaigirdar nails the mix of humor,
heartache, and teenage angst. I finished it with this warm, hopeful buzz—like drinking chai on a rainy afternoon.