My sister's boyfriend is coming over for dinner, and I want to make sure he feels welcome but also sees how close our family is. First impressions matter, so I'll keep it natural but thoughtful. I'll ask him about his interests—maybe he's into gaming, movies, or sports—and find common ground. If he mentions loving 'The Witcher' series, I could share how I binged the games before the show even aired. Little details like that show genuine interest without forcing it.
I also think small gestures go a long way. Offering a drink, cracking a light joke about my sister’s quirks (nothing too embarrassing!), or even just being attentive to the conversation helps. The key is to balance warmth with giving him space—no interrogation mode. If he’s nervous, putting him at ease matters more than trying too hard. By the end of the night, if he leaves feeling like he’s part of the vibe, that’s a win.
Impressions stick, so I’d focus on being myself—but dialed up just a notch. If he’s into something niche like vinyl collecting or indie comics, I’d drop a casual reference to show I’m tuned in (like praising 'Saga' if he’s a comic fan). Complimenting my sister in a sincere way—'She’s way better at cooking than me, so you lucked out'—can also score points. The trick is to avoid overdoing it; authenticity beats performance. If he’s quiet, I’d match his energy rather than filling every silence. A relaxed vibe makes everyone comfortable.
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On the night of my sister’s engagement party, my life officially crashes. Again.
All because of one name on the invitation.
Zachary de Sanctis.
My sister’s fiancé. Fiona.
My ex, the guy I punched in the face five years ago.
Heir to the richest old-money family in Europe.
And one tiny detail only God and I know: he’s the father of my twins.
For the past five years, I’ve been hiding out in a little town in Oregon, working as the CEO of a IT firm while chasing two four-year-olds who look more like their father than me.
Isaac and Isabella: two mini De Sanctis clones with the last name Gómez, razor-sharp mouths, brains that run too fast, and a talent for causing trouble exactly when I need peace.
My family knows I came home pregnant and alone. They just never asked who the father is, and I never offered an answer. As far as they’re concerned, I’m still Arabella Gómez, the wild one who lost her way.
I thought going to Fiona’s engagement party would just mean a few hours of fake laughing, then a quiet drive back to my glass-walled house in Oregon and two sets of blue eyes calling me Mommy.
Until Zach walks into my parents’ living room holding Fiona’s hand… and his gaze stays on my face a little too long.
He can’t find out about Isaac and Isabella.
Fiona can’t find out her perfect fiancé was mine first.
And my family can’t know what really happened five years ago.
Hiding a scandal between two rich dynasties is one thing.
Hiding two chaotic twins who are basically their father’s face copy-pasted? That’s the real nightmare.
Cody is at the top of his game as an ice hockey player. He's rich, smart and successful. He's also a player and likes the girls. He's not interested in settling down. When his best friend's little sister, Imogen comes back home for the winter vacation things start to change.
Imogen can't stand the sight of Cody. He's arrogant, conceited and full of himself and he's a serial dater. On top of that her big brother has sworn her off being allowed to date any of his team mates, especially not Cody.
When they find themselves forced together the dynamic changes, emotion and feelings burn through them.
Will they give in to their feelings for each other?
A powerful story of young adult love, hope and happiness.
"If you really care for me then give him to me. Give me Sebastian!" Andrea says as tears roll down her cheeks.
Killian stands there like a statue, not being able to reply to his sister. How can he give the person to his sister whom he loves?
*****
Andrea and Killian Price are the residential bad girl and boy of Milestone High. They are similar in more than one way. However, they didn't know their interests were similar to the point where they would fall for the same boy.
Sebastian Greenfield, a boy with the prettiest face but the ugliest fate. He harbours so much pain in his heart that he trusts no one in life.
Killian, the cold and arrogant playboy, hides his vulnerability through the facade of his badboy persona.
Both of them have walls built around themselves, walls so high that no one could climb them until now.
It took Andrea 4 days to develop a crush on the new boy of the school who manages to ignite the fire of her desires. It took Killian 4 months to fall in love with the boy who makes him feel like himself again.
Now the question arises, whom does Sebastian love? Or can he love at all? After all, a broken heart can't be mend. Or can it?
Throw in an obsessed lunatic from his past and the game begins. Killian has a lot to fight if he wants to win the heart of the said boy.
Being a sweet, gentle, obedient girl, and never voicing her thoughts is what Gretta Mikhaelovich has always done. Because of all her gentleness and how respectable she was in anyone's eyes, the nickname White Princess had been pinned on her.
But bad luck befell her because of one careless night. She gave her virginity to a man she never expected.
Behind the glitter of the city of New York, Gretta's twin—Gallena Mikhaelovich—is arranged to marry Nicholas de Sanctis. A Main Director of an airline company from Italy which is listed as the largest company in the World. He was a good man, generous and kind—at least in the eyes of everyone he forced them to see.
But, Gretta knew better.
Nicholas de Sanctis was a man who took advantage of her unconsciousness and then took her virginity
Nicholas de Sanctis is nothing more than a ruthless mafia man, a demonic figure hiding behind his angelic handsome mask. His ruthlessness is as rugged as his inherent good looks and perfection.
Gretta didn't like the guy, but that didn't stop her from always turning into glass grains when she was around him. Even though that man was her brother-in-law, and being one of the people she despised, other than her parents, Nicholas had always been by her side. Controls her after he finds out what side Gretta always hides behind everyone.
Tell her they are the same.
Loving his touch more than she realized.
Controling her.
Gretta may be the obedient White Princess on the outside, but she loves all the darkness that Nicholas introduces to her.
After all, she tries not to fall for the guy. Because the lines of reality that are between them are so clear. Gretta wasn't going to let him ruin her life even more.
Three months, she was supposed to live with her sister's family for three months but how will she survive living in the same house with him when she harbors those nasty thoughts? How will she survive living in the same space with him when he was the reason she left for Paris three years ago?
How will she hide the love and lust she has for her sister's husband?
Mia comes back from school abroad to find out that her sister is already in a relationship, which is surprising because Davina was not the type to do that.
Even more surprising was the fact that she had traveled to find her mate, and used it as an opportunity to school, only to be presented with her mate as Davina’s new guy.
Her mother who ran a fancy restaurant and had a new romantic relationship herself, was too busy and already too involved in Davina’s life to face Mia’s completely.
Ethan did not regard Mia at first, even after noticing who she was, but oh well, what happens next?
My sister once brought home a guy who was super into Filipino culture, and I learned a few tricks that made him feel super welcome. First, I picked up some basic Tagalog phrases—not just 'Salamat' or 'Kamusta ka,' but deeper stuff like 'Ang ganda ng suot mo' (Your outfit looks great) or 'Nakakatawa talaga kayo' (You two are really funny together). It showed effort beyond the basics.
Then, I made sure to share some local food—adobo, sinigang, even turon for dessert. Food’s a universal love language, but doing it with a Filipino twist made it personal. I also casually mentioned how much I respected his interest in our culture, which seemed to hit right. By the end of the night, he was laughing at my terrible Tagalog accent, but hey, it broke the ice!
Family gatherings can be tricky, especially when you're trying to make a good impression on someone new. I've found that the key is to strike a balance between being warm and giving them space. Start by finding common ground—maybe he's into a TV show you love, like 'Stranger Things,' or a hobby like gaming. Casual mentions of shared interests can ease tension without feeling forced.
Another thing I swear by is subtle humor. A well-timed, lighthearted joke about the chaos of family events can break the ice. Just avoid anything too personal or sarcastic. And don’t forget to listen! People appreciate when you show genuine interest in their stories. Last time, I bonded with my cousin’s partner over his obsession with vinyl records, and now we swap recommendations every time we meet.
It's always a bit tricky figuring out what to chat about with someone you don't know super well, especially when it's your sister's boyfriend! One approach I've found works well is to tap into shared interests—even if they aren't obvious at first. For example, if he's into gaming, you could ask about his favorite titles or whether he's played anything recently that surprised him. If he's more of a movie buff, recent releases or classic films can spark great conversations. I once bonded with my sister's boyfriend over how underrated 'The Iron Giant' is, and we ended up chatting for ages about animation styles and childhood favorites.
Another angle is to ask light, open-ended questions about his experiences. Instead of grilling him about his job or plans (which can feel like an interview), try something like, 'What’s the funniest thing that’s happened to you this week?' or 'If you could travel anywhere tomorrow, where would you go?' These kinds of questions feel casual but often lead to fun stories or deeper topics. Plus, they give you a sense of his personality without putting pressure on either of you. By the end of our chat, I usually feel like I’ve learned something new—whether it’s a weird hobby he has or a hot take on pineapple pizza.