Well, the term 'mommy issues' relates to psychological impacts of having an unsatisfactory relationship with a maternal figure during childhood. This might lead to incessant need for approval, bottling up emotions, and inflexibility. They may also have a strong desire to control their environment since they felt powerless as children. Remember, these aren’t inherently negative traits, they're the reflections of a past trauma.
Mommy issues refer to issues you’ve had with your mother in childhood that cause psychological problems or difficulty in relationships. The psychological impact of mommy issues can last into adulthood and often concerns how your mom parented you.
For some people, this may look like neglect, emotional abuse, or lack of parenting from your mother. For others, this can stem from strict and overbearing mothers.
'Mommy issues' often aren't as evident as we might think. They can transform into complex adult behaviors and usually stem from an unstable mother-child relationship. One might exhibit fear of abandonment, which can lead to clinginess or extreme independence. There could be issues in forming stable, loving relationships and trust could be a major hurdle. Some might find themselves always on the edge, interpreting criticism or slight disagreement as rejection. There's also a possibility of setting high, often impossible standards for their partners, mirroring their own experience of never being 'good enough' for their mother.
'Mommy issues' are often characterized by lingering insecurities, trust issues, approval-seeking behaviors and setting sky-high standards in love relationships. Sometimes, individuals might either become excessively independent or excessively clingy.
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DADDY
Five girls who have been friends for a long time have the same taste, same likes and dislikes, but their personalities are quite different, but blend in throughout their friendship. As they grow up into women, they have the same fantasies about their gorgeous, attractive stepdaddies. They can't resist the urge to take care of them, to love them, turning into something more.
MOMMY
Five divorced women who are successful in their careers have weird feelings for their adopted sons. Their adopted sons are now grown, and it's their last year of high school. They are all athletic since they are players of the basketball team. Living in a house with handsome and hunky boys is quite difficult, especially if they are all 'tigang' when it comes to sex. It even became more difficult when their sons acts also weird towards them and their eyes stare at them with lust. Could they even stop and control their feelings before it's too late?
The first time I attended my girlfriend Joyce's friend gathering, after a few rounds of drinks, her male best friend pulled her onto his lap.
With a cigarette dangling between his fingers, he grinned. "Call me daddy!"
Instead of getting offended, Joyce leaned into him, helpless but indulgent, and said, "Daddy."
I froze, scowling, but she waved me off without a care.
"It's just a joke! Lucius always never cared for the rules, and everyone knows we have a father-daughter vibe, okay? Don't get it all twisted, Henry! Aren't you a man?"
Lucius became even more provocative, throwing a smoke ring at me. "Yo, son-in-law! Aren't you going to bow to me? Come on, kneel and offer me a drink, and your dad's got your back!"
Everyone at the table burst into laughter as they waited to see me lose my temper and make a scene.
I just smiled, meeting Joyce's impatient gaze with an excited expression. "That's great! I like the way you think, so why don't you call me daddy too?"
My mother is an extreme misogynist, even toward me, her own daughter.
She's wanted to kill me since the day I was born. She hits me if I wear lip gloss, wear a dress, or even get close to my father.
Before sitting for my SATs, she spreads rumors about me trying to seduce my father. Ultimately, she pushes me so hard that I jump from the 15th floor.
This pleases her to no end.
Ever since my little brother died of a sudden high fever and Mom started spending all her time with Matthew Hunt, I started cutting her out of our family photos.
One day, Dad got a call from my teacher. She overheard me saying I lost my mom, and I wanted to borrow my classmate's mom instead.
Dad paused for a moment, then didn't correct me.
"Yeah," he said quietly. "She passed away early."
At the school's parent-child sports day, Dad saw me slip a cleaner ten dollars and ask her to be my mom for the day.
He didn't stop me. Instead, he handed her another 200 bucks and asked if she could attend the parent meeting, too.
After that, whenever something called for a mom, Dad let me go out and "hire" one.
It wasn't until much later that Mom realized she hadn't heard from us in a long time.
She canceled her meetings and came to pick me up from school herself. But at the gate, the teacher frowned and stopped her.
Confused, she went home. The moment she stepped inside, she heard me talking to the property manager.
"My mom's dead," I said. "Do you wanna be my new mom?"
I was born broken. My Alpha mother was the one who branded me.
She said emotion was a sin. A weakness. Especially for a werewolf. Especially for an Alpha’s heir.
The day we were born, she clamped emotion-suppressing collars around our necks. Mine and my twin sister's.
The slightest flicker of emotion, and the collar flashed red. My mother would then push the button, injecting me with a diluted "silver solution" to suppress my feelings.
But my sister Cassia's collar? Always a calm, steady blue. Even when she shattered Mom's precious moonstone, it just pulsed gently.
And me? I’d just whisper, "Mom, the thunder scares me," and my collar would erupt in a violent red.
Then came the sting of silver poison burning through my blood..
I used to argue. But Mom always said the same thing.
"The data doesn't lie. Pain is a teacher. This is for your own good."
After thousands of these injections, I started to believe it, too. That I was born out of control.
The night of the alliance's Moon Goddess Festival, Mom was taking my sister to the rooftop party.
Something scared me during the day.
The collar flashed red, and my mother started the punishment.
But this time, the collar malfunctioned. It shot a dose a thousand times stronger into my neck.
I collapsed on the carpet, begging, "Mother, the collar... it hurts so much... help me."
My collar was flashing a frantic red.
My mother just looked down at me, drenched in a cold sweat, and pressed the button for the maximum dose.
"You'd lose control like this just for attention? You're a lost cause."
She turned, took my sister, and slammed the door.
I couldn't help but think, Mom must be right. The collar is red. It doesn't really hurt. I'm just being dramatic, looking for pity again.
I'm sorry, Mom. In my next life, I'll be the perfect daughter you always wanted.
I was prepping the ceremonial cloak for our seventh mating anniversary.
The front door suddenly banged open.
My son rushed inside, tears streaming down his face.
"The teacher yelled at me," he sobbed.
He shoved the wrinkled drawing into my hands before burying his face in my shirt.
I smoothed out the paper to see what the drama was about.
It was a sketch of a faceless woman titled: The Substitute Mom.
My heart stopped as I read the scribbles underneath.
"Daddy said she is the backup."
"She does the chores but gets no wages."
"The Real Mom is responsible for being beautiful and guarding the treasury."
My fingertips turned ice-cold against the paper.
My mate, Ethan, had just returned from a patrol.
He kissed my forehead.
"What did our pup draw?"
The next second, his smile froze when he saw the content.
His voice tightened, and he reached out to snatch the book.
"He watches too many cartoons! He's writing nonsense!"
I stared at the man I had shared a den with for seven years.
He looked like a stranger now.
If I was the substitute.
Who was this beautiful real mother?
And where had my true son been all these years?
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