In What Order Should New Readers Approach It Ends With Us?

Lurking here because I just finished 'It Ends With Us' ten minutes ago and my eyes are still puffy. I can't even form a coherent thought about order yet. I just needed to be around people who understand. What a book. I'll start the sequel tomorrow, I guess. Everyone here seems to think that's the right call.

Seriously, just follow the numbers. There's no #0.5, no #1.5. It's #1 and #2. Sometimes the simplest answer is the right one.

The simplicity of the order is its strength. In an era of endless series, sprawling universes, and complicated timelines, here's a story that begins and ends in two books. You know exactly what you're signing up for: a commitment to two emotional, interconnected stories. As a new reader, that's a gift. No wondering if there's a book 3, 4, or 5. No worrying about reading a side novella. It's a duology. Start at the start, finish at the finish. The clarity is refreshing.

I'm curious what the big deal is. I see these books everywhere but haven't picked one up. Are they really that heavy? Maybe I'll just read a summary first to see if I can handle the subject matter.

Okay, I had this same confusion last year. The core series is just two books: 'It Ends with Us' followed by 'It Starts with Us'. That's the chronological order for Lily and Atlas's story. A lot of people think there's a third main novel, but that's it. You can absolutely read the first as a standalone if you want; the second is a direct sequel that picks up right after the end of the first book. Some folks recommend reading 'November 9' as well, since it exists in the same universe and has a very brief crossover character appearance, but it's a completely separate story and not necessary for understanding the main duology. The reading experience is perfectly complete with just those two in order.

Okay, here’s how I’d kick things off if I were handing a friend a copy of 'EJRP' for the first time: start with the core story. There’s usually a main arc that the author builds toward, and reading the original publication order gives you the pacing, reveals, and emotional beats exactly as intended. That means read the primary volumes first, even if a prequel or side novella sounds tempting — those are sweeter once you know the main cast and stakes. After the main arc, treat prequels and side stories like bonus tracks. They fill in details and let you savor characters longer without spoiling major twists. I like to alternate: one main volume, one side piece, so the world keeps expanding but momentum doesn’t die. Also check the author’s notes or official timeline — sometimes there are short stories that slot between chapters and are easy to miss. Don’t forget format variety. If there’s a manga adaptation, audio reading, or annotated edition, use them to revisit favorite scenes. And join a discussion thread or a reread group if you like talking through theories — it turns a solitary binge into a party. Honestly, the best approach is the one that keeps you curious, so experiment until reading 'EJRP' feels fun rather than chore.

The dedication in 'It Starts With Us' thanks readers for wanting more of Lily and Atlas's story. That right there tells you it's a follow-up, a response. You can't appreciate the response without knowing the original statement. It's a conversation between the author and the audience, and Book 1 is the opening line.

Honestly, I'm just scrolling through to see if anyone else thought the second book was... fine? It was fine. It was a nice little wrap-up. But the first book is the one that'll stick with me for years. The second I'll probably forget. So my order recommendation is to put all your emotional energy into the first book. Read it slowly. Savor it. Cry. Then, if you have leftover curiosity, breeze through the second one like the optional epilogue it is. Prioritize the masterpiece, not the footnote. Your time and emotional investment should match the literary impact. 'It Ends With Us' deserves a deep, focused read. 'It Starts With Us' deserves a relaxing afternoon on the couch. Adjust your approach accordingly.

The order is less important than your mindset. These aren't fast-paced modern novels. They're meant to be savored. Read slowly, enjoy the descriptions of landscapes and meals, and don't stress about remembering every name. Let the atmosphere wash over you. Starting with that expectation makes any entry point work better.