Blind dates are like opening a mystery box—exciting but kinda terrifying. My strategy? Keep expectations low but hopes high. I’d text a friend the location and a ‘check in by 9 PM’ code word, because safety first. For conversation, I avoid heavy topics (politics, exes) and stick to fun stuff like ‘what’s your go-to karaoke song?’ or ‘if you could teleport anywhere right now, where?’ It’s cheesy, but it works. Bonus tip: chew gum beforehand. No one wants to smell your anxiety breath.
Comfy shoes. That’s my #1 rule. Nothing kills a date faster than blisters. I’d also mute my phone—no awkward vibrations from my group chat roasting my outfit choices. For convo, I’d ask about their favorite ‘trash’ TV show—it’s a sneaky way to see if they’re judgy. If they unironically love 'The Bachelor,' we might be soulmates. If they scoff, well, at least I know early.
I treat online-blind-date prep like I’m prepping for a podcast interview—minus the mic. First, I’d reread our messages to remind myself of their quirks (e.g., ‘oh right, they hate cilantro’). Then, I’d brainstorm a few quirky questions to keep things lively, like ‘would you rather fight one horse-sized duck or 100 duck-sized horses?’ If they laugh, green flag. If they lecture me on duck anatomy, red flag. Also, I’d resist the urge to over-share my ‘Star Wars’ fan theories until at least the second date.
The first thing I'd do is stalk—er, I mean, research their social media profiles. Just kidding! Sort of. Honestly, a light scroll through their public posts can give you a sense of their vibe—are they into hiking, baking, or posting memes about existential dread? I’d also jot down a few conversation starters based on their interests. Like, if they’re into 'Stranger Things,' maybe ask which season they think ruined the show (controversial, I know).
Then, I’d plan something low-pressure, like coffee or a walk, so there’s an easy exit if things go sideways. Outfit-wise, I’d aim for ‘casually put together’—nothing too formal, but also not my ‘I haven’t done laundry in weeks’ hoodie. And hey, if the date’s a flop, at least you got a decent latte out of it.
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Reid Thomas is known for having a revolving door of females in his bed and for not wanting a mate. He's even created rules for himself to follow so he doesn't fall into the trap of a committed, long-term relationship.
But when he loses a bet to his best friend, he's sent on a blind date. There, he meets Taryn Campbell, a feisty warrior with a personality to match, who has him questioning his strict rules. After all, aren't rules made to be broken?
This is Book 2 of the Crescent Lake series. It can be read as a standalone, however, for context and an introduction to the world and characters, it is recommended that you read "The Alpha's Pen Pal" before reading "The Beta's Blind Date."
My boss was my online boyfriend. But he didn't know that. He kept asking to meet in person.
Gee. If we met, I might become a wall decoration the next day.
Hence, I made a quick decision to break up with him. He got upset, and the whole company ended up working overtime.
Hmm, how should I put this? For the sake of my mental and physical health, maybe getting back together with him wouldn't be such a bad idea.
I had just moved in when the young male model across the hall called the police. He claimed I had fallen in love with him, turned bitter when he rejected me, and had been harassing him ever since—banging on his door, threatening him, and even trying to sexually coerce him.
When the police showed up, he pointed right at me and started yelling, “Pervert! You knock on my door every night! You even use binoculars to spy on me, and you’ve been posting my photos online!
“I’ve seen you! Standing by your window, staring at me, always trying to get close. It’s disgusting!”
The neighbors gathered around, whispering and pointing at me. Someone even shoved me, calling me shameless.
“Women like this are trash.”
“She looks normal. Who would've thought she's a creep?”
Under everyone’s accusations, I slowly took off my sunglasses, revealing the hollow sockets where my eyes should be. “Officer, how exactly is a blind person supposed to peep at anyone?”
The night before our big offline meetup, my roommate took one look at my internet boyfriend's photo and declared it was a fake.
"Using a stolen photo for an online romance? He's definitely insecure and too ugly to show his real face!"
The next day, my boyfriend texted: [Sorry, something came up at the last minute. Can you wait half an hour?]
I breathed a sigh of relief because I had just been notified about an exclusive expert lecture on campus. Word was, the speaker was an academic powerhouse, and the university had paid a fortune to secure him.
I snagged a seat in the front row. But the moment I looked up at the podium, my stomach dropped.
Why did this famous scholar look so much like my boyfriend in the "stolen photo"?
My grandfather, Marvin Vega, arranges a blind date for me. The guy, Hugo Crawford, comes from a well-respected scholarly family.
Wanting to make a good impression on Hugo, I put extra effort into dressing up.
But I have barely taken my seat when Hugo's self-proclaimed "gold-digger detector" childhood friend, Marlene Welch, comes charging over.
She crosses her arms and sweeps a disdainful look over my outfit.
"You're covered in designer brands from head to toe. How much are you planning to squeeze out of Hugo?"
Hugo helplessly pulls her back and explains apologetically to me in a low voice, "She just went through a breakup, so she can't stand women who wear designer brands. Please don't take it personally."
I smile and say nothing, figuring it's best not to make a scene at a first meeting.
But Marlene starts criticizing me again, "You put on this whole pampered heiress act with the designer clothes and jewelry just so men will willingly bankroll you.
"All this designer stuff must be from some ex-boyfriend you bled dry, right? Since I was little, I've seen plenty of fake socialites like you who'll stop at nothing to marry into money and bleed a man dry."
I let out an exasperated laugh at hearing such vicious, prejudiced remarks.
I then glance at the Patek Philippe on my wrist. Even in ten years, she still won't be able to afford what I'm wearing right now.
Buzzz…
"Ah… Slower… I can't take it anymore…"
Something hidden inside me buzzed insistently, and I squeezed my legs together, face burning as I sat in the corner of a dark movie theater.
Beside me, my blind date set the remote down, reached over, and pressed my head downward while unzipping his pants…
You know, arranged dating can feel like stepping into a scene from a rom-com where the script is half-written—exciting but kinda nerve-wracking! First, I’d say ditch the pressure to ‘perform.’ Treat it like meeting a new friend who might share your love for 'The Office' or that obscure indie band you obsess over. I always prep by stalking—uh, respectfully researching—their socials for conversation starters (did they post about hiking? Cool, I’ll brush up on trail snacks).
Wardrobe-wise, I go for ‘casually put together’—nothing too stiff, but no stained sweatpants either. A clean sweater and jeans strike the balance. Mentally, I remind myself: chemistry isn’t forced. If we vibe over mutual hatred for pineapple pizza, great! If not, at least I got a free coffee out of it. Bonus tip: Have an exit strategy (a ‘fake emergency call’ feels too 2005—just say you’ve got plans later).
Blind dates are like opening a mystery novel where you’ve read the blurb but have no idea if the protagonist is charming or a total disaster. The adrenaline kicks in the moment you spot them—will they match their profile pic? Will the conversation flow or crash harder than a poorly coded indie game? I’ve had dates where we geeked out over 'Attack on Titan' for hours, and others where silence stretched longer than the final season of 'Supernatural'.
What’s universal? The awkward small talk phase. Favorite foods, hobbies, 'ever tried bungee jumping?'—it’s all fair game until you hit a shared interest. Bring backup topics (like that viral K-drama everyone’s obsessed with) and a casual outfit that says 'I tried but not too hard'. Pro tip: Pick a public place with an escape route, like a café near a bookstore. If it’s a dud, you can always 'remember an urgent call'. But hey, sometimes the stranger ends up being the protagonist of your next rom-com arc.
Blind dates can be nerve-wracking enough, but adding the influencer factor makes it a whole different beast. First off, I’d say don’t overthink their online persona—what you see on Instagram or TikTok is a highlight reel, not the full story. Treat them like anyone else: ask about their hobbies outside of content creation, their favorite books or movies, anything that feels genuine. If they’re constantly checking their phone or talking about their follower count, that’s a red flag. But if they’re down to earth and curious about you too, it could be a great match!
One thing I’ve noticed with influencers is they often appreciate people who aren’t overly impressed by their online fame. Compliment their work if you genuinely like it, but don’t gush. Instead, steer the conversation toward shared interests—maybe you both love 'Stranger Things' or have a soft spot for indie games. And if the date’s going well, suggest something low-key for a second meetup, like a coffee shop or a quiet park. No cameras, no pressure—just two people getting to know each other.