The book 'To Selena, With Love' was written by Chris Pérez, the widower of the
legendary Tejano singer Selena Quintanilla. It's a deeply personal memoir that chronicles their love story, her tragic death, and his journey through grief. Chris writes with raw honesty about their whirlwind romance, the challenges they faced as a couple (including family disapproval early on), and the immense pain of losing her so suddenly. The book offers a perspective only he could provide—full of tender memories, like how Selen
a loved making him laugh, but also
the darker moments, like the media frenzy after her murder.
What makes this memoir stand out is how it humanizes Selena beyond her iconic status. Chris shares stories of her goofy sense of humor, her love for junk food, and how she’d stress over concert outfits. It’s clear he wrote this not just to
honor her legacy but to process his own heartbreak. The title itself feels like a love letter, and that’s exactly what the book is—a way to keep speaking to her, even decades later. I finished it with tears in my eyes but also a weird sense of gratitude for getting to know her through his eyes.