The whole ebook versus audiobook debate feels like it never ends in my book groups. I'm staunchly on team ebook, but my sister lives by audiobooks, so I get the other side.
For me, ebooks win because of control. I can highlight a passage, look up a word instantly, or flip back three chapters to check a detail without any fuss. Trying to do that in an audiobook drives me up the wall—rewinding thirty seconds at a time feels clumsy. I also read way faster than most narrators speak, so audiobakes feel slow unless I crank the speed, which then ruins the performance for me.
That said, I'll grab an audiobook for specific things. A great narrator can make a familiar classic feel brand new, and I use them for re-reads or when I'm doing chores. But for any book where I want to absorb the prose, or a complex fantasy with a huge cast, I need the text in front of me. My Kindle is basically glued to my hand.
I've actually started reading a lot more since switching to audiobooks a few years back. My eyes get tired staring at screens all day for work, so listening in the evening is a relief. I used to think it wasn't 'real' reading, which is a pretty silly notion I've gotten over.
The key for me is genre and narrator. A fantastic narrator like Stephen Fry doing the Harry Potter series or Julia Whelan on a contemporary novel adds so much depth. But I tried listening to a dense historical nonfiction book and kept zoning out, having to rewind constantly. That was a lesson. Now I save audiobooks for lighter fiction, memoirs read by the author, or re-listening to favorites.
I do miss the tactile feel of a book sometimes, but my audiobook app lets me read while walking the dog or folding laundry, which means I get through more stories. The convenience factor is huge. I still buy ebooks of things I want to reference, but for pure narrative enjoyment, my headphones are on.