What stands out to me about Tanjiro's leadership is how much it operates by example rather than instruction. He doesn't give grand speeches about the path forward; he just embodies the traits he hopes to see. His relentless compassion, even for demons, and his refusal to give up, directly challenge the more hardened, cynical members like Inosuke and Shinobu. They start from a place of pure vengeance or detached duty, but watching Tanjiro struggle to find the humanity in monsters gradually reshapes their entire approach.
It's a catalyst for growth that feels organic. Zenitsu's journey is the clearest example—his cowardice is rooted in self-preservation, but Tanjiro's unwavering belief in him, treating him as a capable comrade from day one, gives Zenitsu a model of bravery to aspire to. He doesn't become Tanjiro, but he learns to find his own courage within that framework. The leadership isn't about creating copies of himself; it's about providing a stable, empathetic core that lets everyone else's unique strengths flourish in a healthier direction. You see it even in the Hashira, hardened veterans who initially dismiss him, but his actions force them to re-examine their own rigid worldviews.