My partner is deep into this. Our living room has sticky notes and yarn connecting character names on a whiteboard. I think it's a cult. I asked for the reading order once and was handed a three-page printed document. I smiled, nodded, and went back to watching sports. Different strokes!
My personal headcanon is that the adult novels are the 'official history', the records in the Jedi Archives. The YA novels are the personal journals and mission logs of the Jedi involved. You need both to get the true story.
Character guides are better than chronological guides. Find a character you like—Avar Kriss, Elzar Mann, Vernestra, Keeve, Marchion Ro—and trace their appearances. That will naturally pull you through the necessary media in an order that makes narrative sense for that character's journey, which is often more satisfying than a cold, objective timeline of events.
It's cool how some planets get their first major exploration here. Planets like Dalna or Eiram become important, adding to the galactic map. Future stories in any era can now reference these places, and they'll have a rich history already established in the canon. That's a long-game connection.