Been looking for this exact niche! It’s weirdly specific but hits that spot where power dynamics get really interesting. Not gonna lie, I read 'His Secret Touch' a while back, and it’s still a favorite—this shy, androgynous guy who completely takes charge in private, but there’s this fragile, almost anxious tenderness between him and his partner. The romance is slow, tangled up with insecurities and secret desires. Some readers found the pacing a bit off, but that drawn-out tension where you’re not sure who’s really holding the reins worked for me.
Another one that comes to mind is 'Velvet Command' by J. C. Cane. Less about physical dominance and more psychological—the femboy character uses subtle manipulation, wit, and emotional leverage. The romantic build-up is a series of delicate power exchanges. Honestly, the cover looks like typical romance, but the dynamic inside is way more nuanced. I wish more stories played with this kind of control, where the dominant role isn’t about being the loudest or most physically imposing.